So my friend was massaging my neck  and she  noticed a bump on the back of my neck. So I then felt it. I went to the doctor and she referred me to a dermatologist. She said she believes it is a cyst but did not like the way it looked or felt. I was getting stressed because none of them offer evening or weekend appointments. So I finally found one who offers Saturdays. I need to for the doctor to determine if it needs to be removed or not, which will be another headache in itself. I am hoping it it a one time remove able. I am hoping I don’t have to schedule a outpatient surgery.


Putting your foot in your mouth.

So after ten months of temping and getting rejected so many times. I found gainful employment. I want a career not just a place to receive a paycheck. I have made some bad choices when it comes to jobs. But I have never blamed anyone but myself, I learn from my experiences and then move on. So today I receive a rude comment from a friend along the lines of how many jobs have you worked since I have known you. Well considering I really started being friends with this person during grad school- maybe three. What’s your point? This guy has been fired from numerous places for making for making inapprioate comments. He has a lot of health problems and other problems. But I have never once made a comment about his problems. So I defend myself by saying this is not the first time he has offended people. He has often been univited to gatherings such a birthday parties and other events due to his crude remarks. I called up L today on the way home from work. I explained but what happened and he sighed. He said sooner or later someone was going to tell him off.

Granted I probably should have not called the guy a prick. But where is the fine line of allowing him to constantly insult people without any recourse? I understand people makes mistakes but time after time he had made disrespectful comments. For example- he made an unwanted advance against to someone’s mom- so unwanted he was not welcomed in the house many years after that. He never seems to get he pisses people off.

If L and I move I together I for sure don’t want him in my house.


I write

So things have been getting pretty dusty on this blog. There are several wonderful things going on as well as there have been some sad things going on.

For one L”s sister passed away. Mom and I went to the wake. It was way far out there but he is worth it. He is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. I love him to pieces and feel so bad that there is nothing I can do to make him feel better. It is never easy when someone’s family members dies. All you can do it offer your love, support, and sympathy and pray for them.

School is going excellent- honor roll hell to the yeah. This degree will align me with so many opportunities. I am excited as I am already half way through. Things just keep moving along so wonderfully.

Friends- how I love my friends. They are terrific. Some are friends of the heart while others are friends of the road. My friends are friends of the heart. I love them to pieces and appreciate them for everything they do.

Moving day is coming sooner than later. Mom’s surgery is coming up and shortly there after I am moving. I hope mom will be okay for her surgery. I have to picked up the table I bought from Kim. It is beautiful. I gotta get with L for next Sunday. Well more blogs to come.



The End

Pretty funny how things go sometime. I kept getting these emails from a former friend’s account. So I simply text them politely I might add asking why and all I received back was rudeness. I honesty did not think it would be such a big deal. I even suggested that there might be spam coming from his email. I did not accuse of sending spam emails nor did I accuse him of anything else. Key points politely suggested. Oh and a former friend turned landlord who he owes a shit ton of back rent stated bill collectors are calling her house. I told her in the past to contact him as I had nothing to say nor did I want to get involved Then something told Me to check his blog and sure enough there it is! A blog entry about nothing that he makes into a big deal. Are you kidding me? It is funny I offered to forward him the email but he makes no reference of that in his blog. And I am a liar when I have proof and even offered to send it to him. Oh and my friend has no right to bitch about getting harassed at her place of residence. We are the ones with the problems. Yes! Keeping tell yourself that.

The hell with your future bullshit. I will never ever speak to you again for the mean and callous man you have turned into! That is final.

Broken Sprit

Well I had another aunt pass away.  I have another wake to go to. Very sad. My sprit has been broken. I was not able to visit Mr. Massaro’s gravesite as of yet. I have a wake tomorrow. I cannot seem to grasp three deaths in 2 weeks. So sad!

The Dishes are Done!

I really did not want to revisit this nonsense! But what is annoying is that a certain person constantly keeps seeking to aggravate me. I have not contacted anyone nor have I bothered you, Like I stated in my previous blog entry I contacted to advise you of mail you recieved. I have my own opinions of how our friendship ended. And frankly I don’t care to rehash the horse putty as it is trival. Like yesterday’s newspapers put in the recycle bin. Old news that no one gives a shit about. For some reason you seem to want to take aim me, Rick, and others. Why? Why don’t you leave us alone and stop being accusatory? I have a full time job, part time graduate school, writing projects, family and friends, volunteer, and church. I have absolutely no time to seek out and try to interfere in your life. To be quite honest I am beyond caring at this point. I wish you well and that is that. Rick has a full time job and other things he is involved with. Really don’t you think it is time you stop? My advice to you is never look in the mirror and point the finger.

Just for clarification

I am not sure where you get off mentioning me on your blog. I have not been in communication with anyone as to regards as to why we are not friends as of recent. You made your own impressions on people that know you from what you have done to people such a M. M asked me to contact you as a favor as to what you received in mail at her place of residence. Even though I did not want to I did it to be polite. So don’t get off saying I am meddling in your business when I have not done anything of the sorts. I have my life to live and I am  doing great. Do not assume everything is about you. I do not have time for your horse shit or negativity so to speak.